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It is a part of life that can bring us together, and is something we all experience at some point in our lives. Following a loss, we may experience a range of different emotions including sadness, loneliness, guilt, relief and even anger. We may also feel empty or numb, as if nothing has any meaning, or feel frustrated at how we are feeling.","link":"","button_style":"black"},{"image":"","heading":"Grief","text":"Grief<\/span> is something we often experience in the wake of a loss and can be defined as \u2018a feeling of deep sorrow or distress that is caused by loss or affliction.\u2019<\/span> It is a powerful emotion and physical reaction to the loss of something or someone. Although typically an emotional response to loss, grief can also manifest as cognitive, behavioural and physical challenges such as changes in appetite, sleep disturbance, difficulty concentrating, and\/or a loss of interest in work and other activities.","link":"","button_style":"black"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"text_body","anchor":"","background_colour":"brand","width":"2\/3","content":[{"acf_fc_layout":"rich_text","rich_text":"Note: Neither the assessment nor the information provided in this module is designed to diagnose you. We\u2019d like to demonstrate the consequences of unresolved grief and trauma and to point you in the direction of relevant resources to help you if you or someone you know are struggling right now.<\/span><\/em>"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"grid","heading":"7 Stages of grief ","subheading":"Experiencing a loss can feel lonely, particularly when that loss is the bereavement of a loved one. It is important to know that you are not alone. The best way to move forward is to give yourself permission to go through the different stages of grief. Try to experience these emotions without judgement and do not compare your experience of grief to someone else\u2019s. We all grieve differently and that is ok. It can be helpful to identify where you are in the grieving process and recognise when you might need to seek additional support.","background_colour":"grey","download":"","columns":"4","carousel":true,"grid_items":[{"image":"","heading":"1. Shock and denial","text":"In this initial stage emotions are usually most profound. Once you have experienced a loss you may have feelings of shock, disbelief or numbness. You may also experience physical symptoms such as nausea, changes in appetite or difficulty sleeping.","link":"","button_style":"black"},{"image":"","heading":"2. Pain and guilt","text":"Once feelings of shock start to fade, often feelings of pain start to sink in. This is the time when it first hits you that your loss is real. During this stage it is also normal to start experiencing feelings of guilt, you may think that there was something you could or should have done to prevent the loss. These feelings can feel overwhelming however, it is important to acknowledge them as a normal part of the healing process.","link":"","button_style":"black"},{"image":"","heading":"3. Anger and bargaining","text":"When you are grieving, it is very normal to feel angry and frustrated. You may wonder \u2018why is this happening to me?\u2019. You may even try to bargain for a chance to change the outcome or to find a way out of your despair.","link":"","button_style":"black"},{"image":"","heading":"4. Depression, reflection, and loneliness","text":"This is the stage where you really start to reflect on your loss and how it has affected you and your life. You may start to feel yourself withdrawing from others in order to cope with your feelings of grief. 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By \u2018accepting\u2019 your loss you are acknowledging its existence and starting to move forward with your life. This does not mean that you are \u2018over it\u2019, or have forgotten your loss, but that you are adjusting to your new normal and finding a positive way forward.","link":"","button_style":"black"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"text_and_media","background_colour":"","container_width":"narrow","columns":"third","text_side":"left","image_or_video":"image","youtube_or_vimeo":"","image":2124,"youtube_id":"","vimeo_id":"","heading":"","text":"Reaching this last stage means that you have the ability to accept what has happened and to reflect on good memories. It may become easier to talk about your loss and to look back on memories fondly. You may still experience feelings of sadness from time to time and that is ok. \r\n\r\nNote: Grief is not always a linear process, you may skip or go back and forth between stages and that is ok. Grieving is your own personal experience and the time that you spend processing your loss may be different to others, just know that you are not alone.","buttons":null},{"acf_fc_layout":"text_and_media","background_colour":"","container_width":"standard","columns":"third","text_side":"right","image_or_video":"image","youtube_or_vimeo":"","image":2131,"youtube_id":"","vimeo_id":"","heading":" Grow around your grief","text":"This image illustrates a helpful metaphor for thinking about grief. Developed by Dr Lois Tokin, it takes the view that rather than grief becoming smaller over time, life grows and becomes bigger around it. It acknowledges that there will always be days where you experience strong feelings of sadness but that there will also be days where you experience joy.\r\n\r\nThis model highlights that accepting your loss does not mean forgetting it, but allowing yourself to continue growing a new life around it.","buttons":null},{"acf_fc_layout":"text_and_media","background_colour":"","container_width":"standard","columns":"half","text_side":"left","image_or_video":"video","youtube_or_vimeo":"youtube","image":2155,"youtube_id":" https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=UbRkvygT2Ec ","vimeo_id":"","heading":" Grow around your grief","text":"Watch this short video which further explains Dr Lois Tokin's metaphor of how life can begin to grown around grief. 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